Senses

There are very few men who have to learn sex secrets about women. The few ones are being sought after like crazy. That is why if you are a woman and you go about telling other women about your man’s sexual prowess, you are simply declaring competition. Women are frustrated and disappointed by men who go around bragging to their friends but has nothing to offer to their women. Why are women rushing for other sex alternatives? Think of all the vibrators around. Men need to work on sexual arousal in a woman in order to satisfy her until she can take no more. It is a good feeling to have a man who takes you all the way to orgasm.

Men and women respond differently to sexual advances. The unconscious experiences makes all the difference. This is the perception we have about things and it is all brought by senses. We tend to think that we know how things should be done even without comparing notes. Many people deal with other people how they would want to be dealt with. If I taste wine and I confirm with the first person, I wouldn’t bother to ask another person. Sexual arousal is triggered by different moves. What aroused your past girlfriend might not be what will sexually arouse your current woman. It is good to check with the other person lest you are named mean and insensitive. If a man watches a movie, he will probably notice all the beautiful women in it while a woman notices the clothes, the hairdo and the shoes. Women pay attention to the smaller details like the color and the design.

This should tell you that the smaller details cause sexual arousal in a woman. If you rub you finger softly on her palm then you are doing the right thing. If while kissing you take your tongue all the way down to her throat you are losing it. Kiss her lips softly then look at her eyes and kiss her again. This will instantly lead to unimaginable sexual arousal. Anticipation works wonders for women. Create excitement and tension as much as possible. If you realize you are doing something which turns her on, do not do it continuously. Women love being denied what gives them pleasure to increase anticipation.

Get a scarf and blind fold her. She will love this. Women unlike men are not turned on by sight. Their sexual arousal is mainly caused by other senses. When you blind fold her, concentration will be built on the other senses. Your touching, cuddling and kissing will have a great effect on a woman. As much as a man would dream of a woman who is sexually aroused by sight, she doesn’t exist. You have to work her up. If a woman smiles at a man he thinks “she want sex” but if a man smiles at a woman she thinks “wow he is warm and friendly, I must be looking great!”. This shows that a woman is not automatically put in the mood when she sees an attractive man. Sex is not the first agenda in her mind. Put her in the mood by using senses as the sure avenue to sexual arousal.

Francis K. Githinji Is An Online Dating Expert. His Latest Project Sexual Arousal Shows How The Power Of Online Dating Can Be Harnessed Internationally and With Great Success, Or You Could Post Your Valued Comments On His Blog At Sexual Arousal